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Boundaries for SFS
  • Please do not flirt with us or make any kind of romantic gestures. We are not comfortable with people trying to get with us. Our system is closed to relationships outside of our partner system as we have all agreed on.
  • If you are our ex or know our ex and are close with him, I ask that you do not come around us. It is extremely triggering and terrifying.
  • For our alter Bee (who is publicly listed), do not flirt with him or talk about anything NSFW around him as he is not an adult alter.
  • This is an obvious one but please do not discuss NSFW things or jokes with ANY minors in the system.
  • If you are not close with us or friends and we haven't had deep discussions and you were not given permission, please do NOT ask about our trauma or our medical history. If we are comfortable sharing this, we will share.
  • If any alters provide personal information about our system, do NOT share this with anyone else or discuss it anywhere else. Please keep everything vague. We value personal privacy above everything.
  • If you're someone who fakeclaims systems or spreads negativity, we will very likely block you and not want to associate. This is personal preference for safety.
  • Do not discuss source negativity. This means that if an alter's source has something negative around them or they did, do not discuss it with them. It's very uncomfortable. We may be introjects who split from a source but that does not mean we ARE that source. We are our own people and do not share the exact same ideals as others.
  • That said, don't be weird about a source to the alter.
  • Every alter will have thier personal comforts and boundaries, please respect them. We are not all the same and don't hold the same ideals as each other all of the time.
  • We don't mind talking to minor alters or minors in general but we will not discuss things like NSFW topics or very adult things that shouldn't be discussed with a minor. We will not treat them/you the same as an adult friend. PLEASE avoid making dirty jokes around us if you're an alter - if you do, we will absolutely place a boundary and ask that you stop for both your and our safety.

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